I have a woman that comes clean my house 2x a month. She has done this for 1 year and it seems fine. I was a housekeeper too at one point and I don't think she does an amazing job, but it is worth the price to have the help.

Last week I had a visitor come over while I was at work and the housekeeper was cleaning. My visitor said there was two cars in the driveway. They then saw a large bearded man vacuuming.

I feel uncomfortable that a stranger has been in my home - even if they WERE cleaning. How do I know what else they are doing? This random person now knows where my house key is hidden and what I own.

This happened before when I came home early and the housekeeper had a friend with her who was changing her clothes in my bathroom because they were leaving for a lake trip after the house was done. I also got home early once and she was cooking lunch on the stove.

I haven't done anything. I don't know how to feel. The more I think about it, the more annoyed I am. It is really unprofessional, imo, let alone just weird!