So when the wife and I were first dating she told me that she made out with another guy on the side. I was hurt but brushed it off.

About two weeks after this she lets slip that the guy she renting an apartment with is her ex boyfriend. Once again i brush it off and move on, we move into a place together soon after this anyway.

We then get married the following year and about a month afterwards I’m transferring wedding photos to her computer and find out that one of the friends she invited to the wedding was a different ex and she didn’t want to tell me.

Now i found out that the “making out” when we were first dating was her sleeping with another guy.

AIO that I feel hurt or should I be accepting it being that it took place so long ago. It’s not the partners that’s hurting me but the lack of truth

Thanks everyone.