I’m not only asking if I’m being to sensitive but if I have a sense of entitlement too. It’s really annoying to me & I’m considering not making plans anymore because I feel that she’s actually scheduling plans with me to hang out with him. In her defense her parents are being very strict during the lockdown & the only time that she’s able to see him for a period longer than an hour is if she has an alibi i.e when she comes over. At first I cut some slack because I know that she doesn’t get to leave her house much but I’ve been thinking this can be done differently. Just schedule plans with him instead of asking me if I want to hang out. Because we’re not really hanging out. She’ll come over for maybe a half hour, he’ll pick her up & they’ll hang out for 3-4 hours & then she comes back to hang out with me & then goes home in an hour. I feel like I’m being used, & if she didn’t have him to visit she wouldn’t want to hang out this time every week. AIBTS? Am I controlling for being upset that she schedules to hang out with me but leaves to spend most of her time with the guy she’s talking to?