We are still looking at the best dates for a Reddit Swingers' meetup. In advance of that, we want to start verifying couples. That's going to require a photo of both of you together or individually holding a paper with you user name(s) on it. Face photos aren't necessary, it can be neck down. We will be doing this through modmail to ensure a level of privacy and discretion. Since modmail does not allow direct images, you'll need to upload to somewhere like redgifs or imgur. For added privacy, select the "make private" option so it is not searchable on the image hosting site, but still viewable with the link you will provide. Alternatively, you can send through DM, but you must modmail first as we get a lot of DMs, mostly low effort or creepy guys, so don't check unless we are expecting something. After that modmail message, we will send you an account to DM those to.

To send mod mail on Reddit, you can use the following steps:

On the web Go to the community you want to message, then click the Message the mods link under the moderators section on the right side

On the iOS app Go to the community you want to message, select the About tab, then scroll down and tap the message icon above the moderators list

On the Android app Go to the community you want to message, select the overflow menu icon in the top right corner, then tap Contact Mods