Moderators
Subreddit Rules
Mod Discretion
Moderators have the ability to remove content and users that they believe may be harmful to the community. This action is typically taken based on feedback from other members of the subreddit, rather than solely at the discretion of the moderators. Posts from new accounts & accounts with low karma will be removed automatically.
Don't reply to spam
Spam in this sub is super obvious 99% of the time. As a compromise, local content creators have been verified as local and tagged as such. Click on the profile and look at the empty posting history, link to snap, menu, OnlyFans, etc. See if they are posting on in subreddits far away from ABQ. This takes literally 2 seconds. By responding you legitimize this sub as a target for more spammers. Each reply to obvious spam doubles the ban length of the previous offense starting with 2 days.
Be Kind
Don't be a dick. Don't post negative comments directed at posters or commenters. If you can't say anything nice, then don't say anything at all. Also see rule #4.
Be kind / No bigotry, racism, or hatred / Be body positive
Keep comments positive and uplifting towards others. Negative comments directed at posters or commenters will not be tolerated. Hateful and intolerant comments based on race, sexuality, or gender identity will be promptly removed. Continuing to spread negativity and ignorance will result in a ban.
People on this subreddit are sharing a piece of themselves with the community. Let's focus on spreading positivity and understanding instead, and be supportive and kind in our interactions.
No bigotry, racism, or hatred.
Homophobic, transphobic, racist or other ignorant comments and posts will be removed. If you apologize appropriately and publicly to the user in that post, your account will be banned. If you feel the need to explain your personal view on gender, sexuality, or racial superiority, just shut the hell up.
No effort comments
"HMU", "DM me", etc doesn't say anything about what you have to offer. It also limits engagement and doesn't give people and idea of what you or others have to offer.
No effort posts/comments
Taking the time to craft a thoughtful and engaging message will likely lead to better results. Posting "HMU", "DM me", etc. or stating that you are horny may not attract the type of attention you're looking for. Low effort posts typically don't get the best results.
For male posts, consider showcasing yourself in a way that is more detailed and visually appealing. Thoughtful poses, good lighting, and attention to quality can help you stand out and make a stronger impression.
No Selling (locals verified)
No content selling (Snap, Onlyfans, CashApp, etc.). The exception to this is verifying as a local. To verify you need to take 3 photos of you holding a sign made of crumpled paper with the subreddit name, your name, the date, and the Sandias in the background. There needs to be any part of yourself with identifying marks in the pictures you wish to show to ensure you’re not posting other people pictures. One of the pictures you send does need to be nude but any nudes included can be indoors.
Be body positive
People put themselves out there on this subreddit. Sometimes WAY out there. They don't need your criticism, observations, or pointing out of their perceived flaws. If it is not your flavor, don't yuk their their yum. Just shut the hell up. See a pattern here?
No low effort posts
"HMU", a dick pic, saying you are horny, etc do not constitute a quality post. Low effort posts yield little to no results. If your post is lazy, we assume your game is lazy and your sexual prowess gets an F. Seriously, you want someone to put the effort in to rock your world, then use some effort in your post.
Use Tags
Please use the tags to help others navigate you post. If you don't have a tag or don't say who you are and what you are looking for (example: M4F) your post will be removed.
Post of the Month
Each month the top post of the previous month will be pinned and the poster given a shoutout.
Male Posting Guidelines
Male posts should not be close-up genital shots, and should have some effort put into posing, lighting, and quality.
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