34f here…We are trying to decide if we want to pursue threesomes and swinging again. We aren’t a super fit couple but going to clubs seems super intimidating. Which is why I would like to start by going to a naturist beach just to start being comfortable with myself. It seems if you have to be in the in before being invited to parties. They also seem super intimidating. Resorts appear to be super expensive. I am not sure I am truly interested swapping with men also. I wonder if a lifestyle cruise would be a good start as well?
We are looking into areas of FL that have clothes optional areas on the beach. But a super secluded area closer to us might be a good start too.
I have looked into that beach before. But made me nervous since it’s not one officially. So I think you still have to be careful. I joined the group anyway.
Thanks! We have definitely talked, swapped pics, and even attempted a threesome before. Posting on here had been a little helpful as well.
I think you’re right. The first step is just to get out and start talking.
I think so too. We both get a little nervous when people start talking about wanting to meet up.
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Thanks. I think an even bigger problem is I am not sure I am good at conversation. Husband is way better at talking to people. I don’t want him to just chatter away. He is used to leading in conversation because I am more shy. I’m not saying I want to be besties with the people. Lol. But I guess the first step is just to do. Embrace the awkward if there are awkward moments.