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One of my ex-boyfriend, who’s still a dear friend of mine, passed away a couple of years ago due to liver failure (he took steroids for bodybuilding). We broke up 15 years ago due to long-distance but stayed as close friends.
When we had disputes, my Q said to me that it is allmy fault - “your husband is a drunk and your ex-boyfriend’s dead.”
He’s said so many nasty things but this one hurts the most.
I just want to share this as I want to heal from all the pains he caused me. It is not my fault, he’s just gaslighting me.
My Q didn't want to go to my grandpa's funeral, and he didn't want me to go without him because he said it would make him look bad. He wanted me to skip my grandpa's funeral and said Grandpa wouldn't care because "he's dead and burned up anyway." Then he refused to apologize.
He's said some things to me that, on paper, are much worse than that, but that one cut me worse than any of the others.
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