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We first met in 2017 at our old job. She's really easy to get along with and super reliable. We used to live together in a condo in 2018 with two other friends, but we decided not to renew the lease. Back then, she was already having money troubles despite her good salary and bonuses. We didn't want to pry into her finances, but we were still curious about where her money was going.
After we went our separate ways in February 2019, she moved in with some friends in Parañaque. When the pandemic hit, she lost her job and had to find a new one. Luckily, she did. She moved to Taguig/Makati with our mutual friend, but they had the same issues with her finances. Our friend ended up moving out because of it. Since then, she's been renting a bed space. We've never had any other problems with her, except for her financial situation. She's a great friend, supportive and genuine.
In 2024, I suggested she move in with me to help her and get her finances back on track. I offered to split the bills, which would be cheaper for her, and I already have all the appliances she would need.
The first month went fine, but after a couple of months, she started paying her share late. When I talked to her about it, she said she had a pay dispute that affected her budget. I tried to be understanding, thinking it was just a temporary issue. But as more time passed, she continued to be late with her payments and ignored my messages about the bills. We even risked our electric and wifi services being cut off due to overdue payments. While I sympathize with her situation, I can't always cover for her.
Adding to the complexity of her financial situation, she recently discovered she's seven months pregnant. With no savings, type 2 diabetes, and potential complications during pregnancy, she decided to move in with her boyfriend for support despite not being the biological father. Though she paid her share for the previous month's bills, there are still outstanding payments to settle.
Question: ABYG if sinisingil ko pa din yung kaibigan ko kahit may problema sya sa pagbubuntis?
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