This past Christmas, lumapit sakin (34 F) yung pinsan (50 F) ko para sabihin na ninang ako ng apo (11 F) nya. I was caught off guard dahil bihira ako mag ninang. The only other god children that I have are my brother’s and my best friend’s. Although we’re close in age, hindi kami close personally ng anak ng pinsan ko kaya nagulat ako na I was even listed as a ninang sa binyag years ago, at ngayon lang binring up. I get na very timely ng pag FYI sakin kaya binigyan ko ng papasko yung bata, pero in private I told my cousin I was sorry but I’d have to refuse being a godmother. I was not asked, nor was I even present sa binyag and I didn’t sign anything. Ang response lang na nakuha ko was a shrug and “nakalista ka eh”. ABYG sa pag refuse and for thinking this way?