ABYG? The fact that I feel like this reddit sub is so toxic with how majority of people give 1-sided advices here while not asking decent questions to open possibilities that the person asking for advice might be at fault.

Especially when super detailed ang stories, biases come into play.

I will probably lay off asking for legitimate advice from this group but will continue to open mind's of those that are troubled.

I swear, I'm getting tired of the fact that people assume that the poster is always innocent and perfect when giving out advice.

For real, like the best gurus I have always start asking questions regarding "my" actions and always go back "my" accountability.

Those who are asking for proper advice here. Stay away from 1-sided advices that people give.