So we’re accepting for now that posts which are essentially mirrors of those on r/AgeGapPersonals are a part of the fabric of this sub.

But that’s not really the purpose of it. So I’m suggesting that those of you who are inclined to seek in that fashion go a little further than just the personal ad.

If we’re going to build community in this way, let us get to know you more than just on the surface.

I’m encouraging those of you who are seeking to share an anecdote that would give us a window on who you are. Tell us your favorite story about your grandmother, or uncle, or son, or sister. Tell us about your favorite concert. Share a funny story about something that happened to you along your journey.

I’m hoping to make the people that you are come through in a way that gets beneath the surface. Make us think. Make us laugh. Make us empathize. Just share something interesting about you and your outlook on life.

Anecdotes should be of the sort that you’d feel comfortable hearing/saying at a casual cocktail party. If you wouldn’t blurt out your sexual fantasies or exploits in person around new friends, don’t do it here. Stay away from religion or politics or anything else that might stir up controversy.

Let’s just get to know one another.