Ok here goes. Second post! I’m pleased with the response to my first post and sorry to the guys I didn’t accept message requests. I’m narrowing my search, due to the time difference and the fact that I would actually like to meet people who I am talking to in the future, it’s probably best to stick with UK. I’m a nice person and don’t want to upset / reject anyone and have total realisation that I might not be everyone’s cup of tea. ( I still don’t get why younger males like older men, but it must be a kink same as mine for younger ). I have found young men 18 - 22) sexually attractive since I was that age and as I have got older the attraction for that age has continued. I should have been bolder and braver when I was younger and gone out looking for this sexual gratification years ago. But I didn’t, low confidence / self esteem etc, sexuality denial. I’m at the stage in my life where I’m in a good place and I’m going to make things happen and this is one of them. So I might as well try and find the right boy. I’m looking for a young looking slim guy, ideally not someone who towers over me (I’m average height). I don’t like too hairy though legs ok. I prefer no tattoos. I preferably don’t want someone who looks like they could kick the shit out of me. I’m not a particular fan of smoking (vapes Ok) and personal hygiene is a must, ok I can stick you in the bath or shower but if you haven’t been looking after your teeth then that’s no good. I’m quite interested in guys who are inexperienced as that’s a match. I don’t really want to to dominate you, order you around tell you when to cum etc, aggressively have rough sex. I’m more interested in being gentle. If you are straight / straight acting / bi / bi curious great! Camp / sissy / fem boys probably not for me. You don’t have to call me Daddy (let’s not remind me of my age lol). I’m hoping for discretion 100%, that’s not cos I’m living at home with the wife, it’s just I want this part of my life to be separate, sure we can play some role play and pretend to be co-workers checking into a hotel if we get to that point etc. I don’t want to really drive 50 miles for a 10 min blowjob in a car or woods. Quality time would be nice, beer / wine / food chat get to know and fun. We could do it again but not every week as I have a busy life. I’m up for chatting / camming first but will not show my face, you can if you wish but I wouldn’t expect you to. About me, average size, height, dick, not good looking or ugly (hopefully). Not sleazy, dirty, perverted, just nice guy. Cuddles and kissing is good, I’m not a bottom (I don’t think), maybe a top but quite happy if you only want mutual playing and sucking. I do have a fantasy to suck you off and I like watching cumshots.

I’m quite a good reader of situations and can give good advice especially if I have had a similar situation, so very open to meeting guys who are in the closet or bi curious and want 100% discretion. I’m not gathering pictures, (I save none). I’m not going to post your pics on-line and I’m not going to blackmail you. And I expect the same because I’m not stupid and it won’t work. I’m truthful about who I am including my age and I expect you to be. I want to stay on the right side of the law. I appreciate this is a long post and a big wish list, but that’s OK I’m not in a rush and will keep looking though saying that happy to meet within the first few weeks for the right person.