Putting myself out there after 15 years of marriage. I’m also a father to one child and share custody. I’m easy going and very recreational, so most of my going out time is during the day. I guess that’s from growing up in LA and having nice weather for most (all?) of the year.

On the other hand, growing up in LA had a lot of nightlife back when, unlike now. So I’m very comfy with a night out on the town for a live band or other such endeavors.

I have a fast paced m-f corporate career that I enjoy and have been at for maybe years. Also been with the same company for over ten years.

While being a decent looking guy has afforded me a fair share of dates in the last year or so, I haven’t found my person. Sure, I’ve met some cool people irl, just not the right match for me.

So I’m casting a line out for someone special. And I feel like in Reddit it’s all about timing.

I would like to meet someone, get to know them, get a feel for their vibe and then date with a longterm relationship as the goal. While I do like cute, fun dates, I’m dating with intention. Let’s just not treat it like a job interview. Please feel free to be yourself. That’s what I’m looking for.

What sort of person am I looking for? Well, someone innately kind and compassionate. And not just to me, but to everyone around you and us. Seriously, a genuinely kind and polite person is very attractive to me.

I don’t care how much you make, what you do for a living, or where you’re from. I do appreciate someone who is authentic and unafraid what others think. I don’t care what your style is. It’s your character that counts.

I would prefer an ambivert as I am one as well. I can head out for a big social gathering or stay at home and chill. I am perfectly comfortable with either.

The main physical thing that gets my attention is nice skin and a feminine shape.

But I am looking for longterm so character and compatibility is priority. So if you’re looking for a ONS or a hookup vibe, I’m not the man for you.

But, as I have stated before, if you are genuinely sweet and attentive and appreciate receiving the same, I encourage you to reply and say Hi with a link to something you like, enjoy, find fascinating, etc.