Hi! I want to spend the rest of my life with a woman that loves making games as much as I do.

I’m a real life game designer. I’ve shipped several games and have been in and out of the game industry all my life -- mostly in. The other years I spent founding tech companies.

Here is a recent picture of me:

https://imgur.com/a/EGaLN2I

There is another on my profile way down on the bottom. Both are recent pictures of me.

I have a history of success, of getting what I want and pulling off great things. Some examples: I've run a bunch of companies and even sold a couple. I'm a published author, have a pilot's license, have traveled all over the world. I don't own any islands or anything, but I live in a rad little house and I have an income stream that could modestly support us forever.

I don't expect you to have accomplished any of that. But I expect you to be hungry for making games, not in a money-grubbing kind of way, but in a 'this is what I want to do with my life' kind of way. Because making games is hard and it takes a long time, so you have to really want it. Not just in a dreamy kind of maybe sort of way.

It would be great if you already had some skills to apply, but if you don’t we can work on those together. Art, marketing, programming perhaps?

Ideally we would work four days a week on a new game that we jointly come up with and share profits on. We would share household duties in a way that we both agree with. And with the remaining time we would go on adventures, have sweet little picnics, snuggle up, play other games and learn from them, stay fit and healthy, have amazing sex (I like to take the lead in the bedroom), be there for one another and make the most of every moment together.

I'm in really great shape at 5'11" 162lbs - I have a runner's body but I'm working at upgrading it to a gymnast's body. I'm on track to do that.

So because I've done the hard work on my body, I'm gonna need to be with someone who is there or most of the way there too. I’ve gone on quite a fitness journey over the last couple of years and would love to be your accountability partner. Tall or short, I don't care.

Now at 58 I’m old as dirt. But you know, there are no guarantees with anyone in life. I'm doing all the things that one does to live a long and active life. Whether you're old or young I don't care. I care that you've taken care of yourself. That you have the same energy and enthusiasm for life that I do.

I’m not addicted to anything so hey, don't be an addict either.

I’m not an abuser or a narcissist. I'm great at respecting boundaries and I need to be with someone who also understands that 'no' isn't a personal insult.

I’m a part time father to an adorable little boy - I take that responsibility really seriously, and I can tell you all the ways I'm a great parent. But I’m not looking for a parent (for me or my kid!). I'm open to you having kids and also to having more, or none.

I live in Portland Oregon and for a ton of reasons I'm not moving. It doesn't matter where you live right now, but you'd have to move. It’s really nice here.

I want one person and you should too.

My DMs are open, and I’d love to talk to you!