Let's start this fresh. Like many of you, I’m looking for someone special, a partner who just hits. I know there are many other important requirements, but it just feels so good when I am excited for someone special. I believe soulmates are not discovered, but formed through commitment.

I am happy with many types of relationships, but I hold a special place for the traditional lifestyle. I've always wanted to come home to a clean house where my partner is free from intense work and is able to pursue her hobbies and passions (but also keeping the house clean). I do find it a little odd that this type of life is now often considered a kink, but whether a kink or not, I would love to explore it with the right woman. I understand that real life can take us out of the ideal. For me, this should always be our north star even if we have to stray because of obstacles in our lives.

With the end goal stated, let us now put it to the side. I find I often am too focused on the destination and I forget to find joy in the journey. We never know where our roads will take us,  so let's start where we should. Maybe we will end up in a deep BDSM relationship, but for now, I should ask: Can we make good friends?

About me: I am a person of paradoxes, and honestly, I like that about myself. I think the world is too complex, too raw, too real to be easily sumarized in a few sentences. I want to be complicated and I am okay with some of my feelings and desires not perfectly matching with each other.  I want my partner to not feel she has solved life because life isn’t a problem to solve but a ride to experience! For me, all the joy, pain, laughter, and sorrow combine to make life special. Without the opposition in all things, I don’t think the highs would mean anything. 

On my average weekend, I love nothing more than a lazy Saturday. Let's curl up together and watch a fun movie, or play some classic games (board or video games). Maybe I will work on planning our next holiday while you sit in my lap playing on your phone. I want someone who can match my energy. Whether its enjoying a relaxing day or getting pumped for a big event! Your interests don’t have to match mine, but I want us to give each other energy to learn about ourselves and each other.

I am fairly fit and exercise daily. I don’t have abs or a 6% body fat, but I am healthy. Physical attraction is important to me, and I’d be happy to trade pictures upfront.

On BDSM: I want to explore a relationship with you because of how we connect. Kink is second, necessary, but second. Ideally, you would be interested in some form of TPE.  I don’t mean that I want to micro-manage you after all a girl who has to be compelled in all things is a slothful and not wise servant. Instead, I want to have the right to overrule everything that doesn’t fall in your limits.  It takes time to build this level of trust, so please don’t think that is where I expect to start. I will use my authority try to make you the best person you can be. While ruining a submissive can be fun in roleplay, I want my submissive to feel safe with me and excited to serve and obey because she trusts me. Occasionally, I will enjoy her for my own sake, but the focus should be on expanding my submissive's world. 

My dominance style is a little different with each submissive I’ve had. Generally, it falls more into the caring, but strict dom. I can have a bit of a mean streak in me. I’m kind of like an inverse sour candy. I start sweet, and if I trust you, you can see some of me raw. I want someone who can see these parts and love me in my best and worst lights. I want to see where we go. My only end goal is exploring our lives together.

I am looking for someone between the ages of 18-36 and do not want children. I am happy to relocate you.

Let's not spend our lives alone. I am hoping that girl who makes my heart flutter is just a message away. I hope to see your orange message in my mailbox soon!