If you're type of woman who thinks and believes that traditional gender roles often make the best and most successful relationships and marriages, then we're likely in for a great relationship together.
You want your man to work and provide, while you look after him, the home and any kids.
You're a giver and pleaser, and love to cater to your man and build him up in every way you can.
You expect your man to act as a protector, shielding you as much as possible from the dangers and harms of life.
You view your man as head of household, having authority over you and his word is law, even as he seeks your counsel and input in forming decisions and keeps your best interest at heart.
You view the home/kitchen and running it as your domain, while he focuses on a career and any work outside the physical house.
While we're both capable (and often will) help each other out in each other's domains, for the most part, they stay clear and defined and we each fulfill our role and responsibilities.
You're a comforter, encourager, cheerleader, nurse, best friend, lover, companion and partner in crime all in one.
You view yourself as belonging to your man and this reflects in your attitude and actions.
You expect your man to love and look after you as he would his own life and body. How he treats you should reflect how he treats himself.
You’re fit, attractive and stay in shape. In this case, round isn't a shape. You expect the same from your man. We all age, and we all can put in the work to keep a nicer looking body for ourselves and our spouse.
You embrace your femininity and it's displayed your actions, attitude, dress*, posture and above all, in how you treat your man.
(*Your attire can be jeans and a tee, as well as an elegant little black dress. Think elegant, not everything exposed. Tasteful, not trashy. Outfits and attire that are cute, or highlight your beauty and flatter your figure, not ass cheeks hanging out or everything but your nipples exposed. At home, feel free to be as sexy, raunchy, cute, comfortable or completely naked as you wish).
Whether you're a virgin and eager to have sex with your husband, or sexually experienced and skilled, you make sex a priority and with rare exceptions, are always available to your husband. Morning blowjobs, or greeting him with one when he returns from work, is a common occurrence.
You reverence and respect your husband, honoring his position, accountability, work he puts in and his love and care of you and family, even as he dotes upon and loves you.
You love to laugh and be silly and cut up, and have an easy going way about you.
You also have a serious side, and take your roles and responsibilities very seriously.
You're looking for one man for life, and are exceedingly faithful and loyal. If you're unsure, you're out.
You view your role in life to be a helper to your husband. It's what drives you. You love and embrace this.
You want to go deep. You want to love truly, madly, deeply and fall so hard and fast it's scary, exciting and wonderful all wrapped up in one.
You view this as a lifetime commitment. Not a phase, fad, or curiosity. Your man holds the same views.
You're a Christian or very open to following God, and the Bible as your standard for relationships, morals, and overall in life.
While not a hard and fast rule, you're politically conservative and on the right side of most issues.
You're sweet and cheerful and nice to be around, not nagging or contentious, and you want your man to be firm, but fair. Loving, yet disciplined. Assertive and dominant, yet kind and romantic.
You know and expect that each of us will have "off" days, and we fix things and get things right. We don't hold each other to perfection, but we do expect each other to fulfill our roles as best we can, and to get back on track ASAP when we say or do something that is off base.
If any of this resonates with you and you want a life like this, chat with me or send a message.
If you're a career woman and want most of this, minus staying home full time, we'll discuss that. I'm open to a wide age range, let's say 18 to 35.
While many of the above points have things I believe the man should be and do as well, here’s a quick refresher about yours truly.
I’m serious and can handle life’s challenges, yet also have a playful and fun side.
I’m attractive, healthy and keep a fit body.
I work hard and believe in providing.
I have a great sense of humor and we’ll laugh a lot.
I’ll dedicate my life to protecting and shielding you as best I can.
I’m loving, have a romantic side, and can be rather charming at times.
I’m not a pushover and have no problem putting you in your place.
And a lot more, you should get to know me.
Tell me all about you. Age and location is always good, but the longer and more detailed the better.
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