Warning: Long post! I figure the right guy will read the whole thing :)

Might as well give this a shot! My name is Trinity, I'm 19, I'll be 20 in December. I'll go ahead and admit that unfortunately, due to trusting my ex & truly believing he meant it when he said he cared about me and loved me, I am now a single mom! I know for some guys, that's a no-go, so I'll put that out there ꒰ ୨୧ ´͈ ᐜ `͈ ꒱ ♡ I'm also not looking for anything sexual either; I do have kinks and all those things, but I have been used for my body before, and I have zero interest in being used for it again. I want something genuine, built on love and connection & not lust.

For anyone still reading, hi there. I'm just looking for someone older who will genuinely care about me and my interests, and will encourage me! Someone I can send my poetry to and they'll give honest, intelligent, useful feedback. Someone I can ask for advice and will help me. Someone who will encourage my passions and not just dismiss them! I'm looking for someone who has lots of world experience and is willing to share their wisdom and intelligence with me, but not in a condescending way.

Ideally, you'd be 27-38, but I'm willing to go a little over or under this range, however, please don't be over 40 as that is just too large a gap for my taste :) I'm located in SC right now, born and raised in SC actually, but if things go my way, I'll be attending a college in Nebraska in a year or two, since it's one of the only colleges in the US where I can have my lil munchkin on campus with me.

I'm just looking for someone I can call on the phone and get life advice from and have funny banter with. Someone who can give book recommendations and who can help me get my life together LOL! I'm really looking for a "cool uncle mentor" or a "smart English professor who happens to have a fave student" type of vibe, mainly a friendship with a mentor aspect. I'd love for things to eventually blossom into a loving, caring LTR built on respect and trust, but I want to take things slow. I don't believe in dating casually, so don't worry, you won't be competing with anyone else; I pursue ONE guy at a time, and I expect the same from you :)

I am totally willing to meet up, but again, keep in mind that I may be in a different state within a year or two due to wanting to finish college. However, I would have zero issue flying you out to me or working that out together, or even being long distance. I am extremely loyal, and for better or worse, I never give up on a relationship until it's literally not salvageable. You'd have nothing to worry about ♡♡ I adore a man with manners, intelligence, and who makes time for me. Words of affirmation and physical touch are the keys to my heart!

I, of course, will treat you with kindness and respect. I will do my best to fufill your love languages as well. I have been told I have a very adorable, fun personality and I happen to agree. Any effort you put into me will be fully returned! I'm 5'1 and slim build (96-102 lbs, depends on day how much I eat) & I like to read, watercolor paint, craft, and other artsy stuff. Just shoot me a message if you're interested. Attached a selfie to prove I'm not just like, a faceless bot karma farming.

https://ibb.co/x51kYW8 https://ibb.co/FXLd5TS ^ Selfies of me! Straight hair pic is from a year or two ago, braids pic is the most recent!