Hi! I'm here once more I'm genuinely trying to be optimistic, positive, glass half full thought process in this search (I've been blessed enough to meet people fortunately, but nothing that has stuck), but I never would have imagined that finding a special someone where we can feel a mutual attraction, and a genuine, serious desire to meet in person would be so absurdly hard to find. As someone with no skeletons in the closet and nothing to hide and a ton of energy to give, I would love to find someone who simply wants the same thing as I do, with as much of an initiative as I do to spend the time getting the elephants of the room out of the way to work towards an in person relationship. I am fine starting online, but I really want to experience the joy of meeting someone I am into more than anything! If you feel the same way, I'd love to share a bit about myself, so keep reading!

I'm someone who considers himself a dom that is very open minded, flexible, but has a clear idea of what I would enjoy a dynamic to look like. I enjoy things like cgl genuinely (and honestly) because I love taking care of someone just as much as I enjoy teaching someone things about the experiences I've had in the world growing up. I'm incredibly open to tweaks and adjustments to how I want to present the world I'd love to build with a sub that is looking for her long term partner, but you won't have to worry about any BS or lack of transparency from me!

To describe a sneak peek of what I'm looking for with someone, I'm a man that

• Loves the thought of helping with schoolwork and being involved in that. If you're in school and you have homework, I'd love to be your math tutor (especially!)
• enjoys wellness checkups! If you feel like you're forgetful, happy to help chime in and create some structure for you too :)
• Enjoys actively helping when needed! I'd love to help you put a shoe on, tie it, pick a piece of clothing you're indecisive on or a meal to eat if you need a tiebreaker, but I can live without this as I don't want people to get the impression that I need to micromanage you.
• Loves video and phone calls. I need to feel a connection before experiencing anything sexual, and while I am someone that prefers to type more often than not, if I can't have a phone/video call to remind myself of your beautiful face, we're not going to work.
• is happy to go into further/greater detail about ANY question you may have on what's important to you. I am into a lot of kinks, and generally happy to try anything monogamous twice (so not a big fan of involving other people, I want you and me), and I'd love to hear what you like so I can learn as much as I can about you!

As for you, to go into a little further detail about me, these are the things I'd love in a potential partner:

• Younger than me. I don't want to be the younger one anymore, I've worked too hard in my life to settle, and while I think everyone is awesome, it's just a preference and I am sticking to it.
• Someone I am mutually attracted to. I'm 6'1, hispanic (brown skin), and due to having relationships in the past where sexual chemistry/intimacy and the lack thereof being a factor, I'd like to find someone who is into me just as much as I am with her.
• Someone open to relocation (or already in NYC!). I know this may sound quite selfish, but I believe I have a lot to offer, especially if you're family oriented! I feel like I have a fantastic support system to offer someone, a home in one of the greatest cities in the world to share with someone, and as I cannot take it with me, I'd love to bring someone here for the long haul. Of course, I'd be more than happy to talk details and all that jazz should this matter down the road.
• Someone that has time to have conversation. The hardest thing I have suffered from in this search, is finding someone that has been available. My love language is quality time and physical touch, but continuously meeting people in my search who I have only spoken to for 15 minutes out of the first 2 weeks I have known them is no way to create a dynamic.
• Someone open to a biological family. I am into breeding just as much as the next person, but I want to one day have a family of my own. I would love someone that feels the same way. Please, I cannot stress enough that this is important to me. I'd really love to have someone align with me on this.

And that's it! I know its a little generic, but I value quality over quantity, and its important to me to actually have a chance to build something with someone instead of having someone reach out with the intent of it being doomed from the beginning due to these things not aligning.

If you think this aligns with what you are looking for, I'd love to hear from you! Tell me what stood out, I'd love to get to know you better and we can go from there!