I've always been one to believe everybody deserves healthy love.... everyone except toxic people. I'm basically what you call a loner. I love to spend time with myself and once in a while step out. Once I'm into you, you tend to become my favorite person and would love to be around you. I can be very playful and I love to laugh a lot. I am single with no child and can't wait to have my own babies. I enjoy movies, music and singing. people say I have a good voice and I think they're right. lately,I've been into good detective series even though I'm able to predict almost every ending of an episode. I'm what they call chubby/ plus size and 5'4. I love to be comfortable so I keep my natural hair and nails. once in a while,I like to paint my toe nails and put on make up. I have dreadlocks and wear anklets. I love piercings....once,I pierced my nose. I might do it again in the future. I'm not religious and so would love that you aren't because I don't intend to raise religious children. if you aren't, please respect my stance and not try to impose or convert me. I know what I want and won't change my mind about religion. I'm hoping you're a single man between the ages of 35 to 50yrs who has done the necessary work to accommodate a companion and the children that will come out the union. you should be monogamous,kind,mature,be open to growth. I'm not looking to raise a grown man please and that's why I insist you be a man. you should know how to have healthy communication. please, I'm not looking for chat buddies. I want a man who knows what he wants and is willing to make it work. I don't mind what shade of skin tone you come in. We can talk about relocation once we hit it off. I want a man who'll love me for me the same way I'm willing to love him for him. I want my bestie,my other half and partner for life. I hope you're the one. just send me a message.