Hi there! I am making this post with the intent of finding my future husband, best friend, life partner and soulmate. I am 20 years old, am originally from California but am currently living in Oregon. This is my first time making a post like this and I’m quite excited to see what comes of it. I have been interested in traditional gender roles and the housewife/stay-at-home mom lifestyle for a while now. I think I would thrive in this lifestyle exceptionally. All that’s missing is my person so that we can accomplish this goal together.

If you want to know more about me as a person and what my personality is like then please read the post I’ve made discussing this in detail that's on my profile.

If you’d like to know what I sound like, there's a small clip of my voice also on my profile. (I apologize in advance if it sounds rather staticy)

I know physical attraction matters so please take a look at my pictures first before messaging me so we at least know there’s physical attraction on your end. The pictures are also on my profile haha.

~What would make me a suitable wife and/or mother?~
♡ I enjoy cleaning and organizing and find a sense of peace in it
♡ I do quite well at keeping up with housework/chores
♡ I love to cook and be quite ambitious and creative with my cooking   (Let’s have a dinner party or just let me make you your favorite meal!)
♡ I love to bake things like bread from scratch and am always trying a new recipe   (I’ll even do it in my cutest apron)
♡ I want to be a homemaker so I will take very excellent care of our home
♡ I have good budgeting skills and can help with finances in that way
♡ I love to look presentable for my partner by keeping my hair and nails done, wearing light makeup and dressing in nice dresses, corsets and heels
♡ I’m great at making and keeping schedules which could be very helpful to us in leading efficient lives
♡ I love babies and children and being caring, nurturing and motherly come quite naturally to me
♡ If we have kids, I would want to be a full-time stay-at-home mom and dedicate myself to giving them all the care and love in the world
♡ I will always do my very absolute best for us and our potential family♡ I will always be there for you and support you and just make sure that you are happy and that we’re happy together

~What qualities do I possess that would make me a good wife and/or mother and suitable for this lifestyle?~
♡ submissive ♡ traditional ♡ kind ♡ caring ♡ good listener ♡ nurturing ♡  great at communicating ♡  compassionate ♡ adaptable ♡ organized ♡ attentive ♡ determined ♡ positive ♡  reasonable ♡ trustworthy ♡ patient ♡ full of unconditional love ♡ encouraging ♡ supportive ♡ self-aware ♡ resilient ♡ open-minded ♡ willingness to learn ♡ always trying to improve for the better ♡ diligent ♡ creative ♡ polite ♡ good problem-solving skills ♡ honest ♡ well-mannered ♡ motherly ♡ gentle ♡ accepting ♡ poise ♡ feminine ♡ bubbly ♡ empathetic ♡ easy going ♡ fun ♡ sweet ♡ and last but not least, kinky hehe ;) ♡

~Some things you should know about me:~
I do believe that honesty is the best policy so here are some things about me that might be potential deal breakers to some people.

♡ I have been married in the past so this would not be my first marriage. I am of course divorced now and had no children from my previous marriage and have no ex-drama either. I am an open book and don’t mind privately answering any questions you may have about it. But hey on the positive side, that just means I already come with experience at being a wife haha ;)
♡ I am the type of person that’s prone to having anxiety and because of this I can be impulsive or have the rare panic attack. I would like to think that the worst it can get on a daily basis is probably just me overthinking and stressing out. I’d say I’m decent at managing it though, like I’ll talk about it or maybe go pet my dog or listen to some music and that usually tends to help. And I am certainly less impulsive than I used to be, I’ve worked hard on this. If I’m being honest, I think the biggest reason for my anxiety though is all the uncertainties I have in my life about the future. I genuinely think that if I had a dominant male presence to guide me and be by my side in life, most of my worries and anxieties would be eased and no more.
♡ I very much love animals and they will probably always be a part of my life. Especially if we do decide to not have kids, I would at the very least like to have 2 dogs. With that being said, I do currently have a dog, she’s a pomchi and very small haha but super friendly. I love her very much and she is honestly like an emotional support animal to me. If I do end up relocating to you, which I don’t mind at all and is probably likely, I would like for her to come with me. I think that’s probably the one thing I wouldn’t be able to compromise on.

~About me:~
Just wanted to throw in some more important tidbits about me here haha.

♡ Looks - I acknowledge that I’m a curvy/chubby person but I promise that I’m working on it. I’m already down 40 pounds from my highest weight and I am very determined to keep going as I believe in always improving myself for the better where I can. I’d want to look good for my husband in all aspects besides the nice dresses and the corsets and all the other upkeeping I do of myself. I want my future husband to feel proud to have me as his wife.
♡ Beliefs - I thought it would be good to mention that I am not a religious person, I consider myself an atheist. I don’t mind at all if you are religious though, as long as we respect each other’s beliefs. As far as I’m concerned though, I just believe that I need to always try my best to be a good person and the best version of myself possible.
♡ NSFW Wise - If I’m being completely honest, I don’t enjoy nor feel capable really of talking about sexual things with anyone unless I feel comfortable around them and I have an emotional connection/bond with them first. I think that’s why I don’t like anything casual and just prefer something genuine and serious. With that being said, I’m ok if we talk about what we’re into just to make sure we’re compatible. But I do not want to get sexually involved with anyone until I feel comfortable and have that connection that I’m seeking. I just want things to progress naturally and if they’re meant to be then they’ll surely happen in their own time. I will say this though, I am very kinky and into a lot of things, I am very submissive and I have a high sex drive when I’m with the right person and I feel strongly about them.
♡ Random - I thought I’d throw in a silly fun fact about me here haha. I absolutely adore raccoons and it’s literally one of my dreams in life to pet a nice raccoon one day!

~What do I look for in a future husband?~
Someone who:

♡ is single and wants a serious, monogamous relationship
♡ is traditional and is also looking for this type of lifestyle and seeks a housewife and/or SAHM
♡ is ready to put the effort in and also wants to find genuine love/a connection
♡ wants to get married eventually
♡ wants to create our own family with me, whether that be with children or with a dog
♡ is financially stable, it’d be especially necessary if we decide to have children
♡ is dominant, a provider and a natural leader ♡ is loyal and has no ex-drama themselves 
♡ is sweet, caring and affectionate as this is probably the quickest way to my heart 
♡ likes to receive affection and attention just as much as giving it and reciprocating
♡ also loves animals
♡ is mature, has good communication skills and won’t just run away from problems
♡ is drug and disease free as so am I (I am ok with 420 stuff but I don’t personally partake in it) 
♡ has no addictions or bad vices (I’d be ok with you drinking responsibly but again I just don’t personally partake in it)
♡ doesn’t smoke, that’s a pretty big deal breaker for me
♡ is aged 21- 40ish
♡ is at least 5’6 so we’d be the same height but I’d prefer if you were taller than me
♡ lives on Planet Earth haha. I am open to relocating anywhere as long as it’d be realistically possible for me to move there and live with you. I am passport-ready and would be more than happy to travel to you. Although I’m sure it’d be easier if you were also from the US, my soulmate could be from anywhere in the world so I don’t want to limit myself to only the US
♡ some types I like are- nerdy, men who wear glasses, gentlemanly and like to give princess treatment, gentle caring but still dominant, possessive and older men to name a few. You absolutely do not have to be any of these types though. The best you can be is just being yourself, I want to like you for you after all
♡ likes to call and eventually also video call and wants to genuinely get to know each other
♡ is willing and wanting to meet sooner rather than later

~Side note:~
I know that I may seem indecisive or uncertain, for example like how I’m ok with having children but also ok with now, among other things. I assure you though, it’s not because I don’t know what I want cause I definitely do, Once I separated and was divorced from my ex, I made sure to spend a lot of time figuring out what I would want in my next relationship. I just believe that big life decisions should be made together as partners and I am so willing to compromise on a lot of things because I think that nothing is set in stone. First and foremost, I am looking for a true connection and if I can find that with someone then all the other things would come second. I am more than willing to compromise and make it work for the right person.

~To start wrapping this up:~
Let me thank you first of all for taking the time to read my post. I acknowledge that it was quite long. I am very hopeful and optimistic for this post and for what the future may bring. At the end of the day, I just want to find my person that I will have and love for the rest of my life. Sometimes I just want to be treated like a princess and spoiled with affection and not be lonely anymore. I know I’m no diamond of the season (Bridgerton reference haha) but I hope that you’ll take a chance on me. I also know that I can come off as rather naive when it comes to love and dating but I am a hopeless romantic after all but I’m still aware of reality and how things work haha. I’m certainly the type of person that wears their heart on their sleeve and I hope I was able to showcase that plus put a lot of my personality into my post. So please, I implore you to give this wondrous thing we call love an honest try with me. You can go out and conquer the world and I’ll make sure you have a peaceful home to return to and you never know, I may just be the one <3

~In conclusion:~
If you decide to message me, please tell me about yourself, what it is you're looking for and I’d love to see a picture of you as well if you’re comfortable with that. I will be much more likely to respond to messages that show effort. I honestly look very much forward to meeting you and can’t wait for your message! Let’s make our happily ever after come true💗