Hello there!:)

As the title suggests I’m looking for an older man who can provide both guidance and a connection. I will say I’m pretty shy first off but not dry and once I’m out of my shell I’m pretty energetic! I’m willing to start online but would hopefully like to move from there if we mesh.

Little about me is that I was with the same guy since I graduated high school and broke things off a little while ago. Spent so much time with one person so I’m pretty inexperienced. What I’m looking for is someone who doesn’t mind that, someone who’s well experienced in everything including life and can show me what I’ve been missing out on. I’d like someone who’s willing to give reassurance without being prompted, someone who will make decisions for me because they know better than me. I’d like companionship and guidance. Someone who’s still a gentleman but kinky and encourages exploration with him. I’d like someone who’s consistent too and reaches out daily not leaving it all to me, taking interest in my day and what I’ve done etc. I’m not just wanting something sexual, I’d like for this to become something more serious if things work out. I feel like I’ve wasted a decent amount of my time already and I do not wish to do that any longer.

I’ve always been interested in older men so now I’m finally exploring that. Preferably 32-50 but any age is fine still. I do enjoy the ddlg dynamic but it’s not a necessity.

I’m 5’6, curvy, a little chubby, DDD, dark hair, freckles, glasses, pale, tattoos and piercings. My style is feminine but still alternative. Willing to exchange pics if you ask because physical attraction is important still:)

The non sexual things I like are hiking, going to museums, zoos, record shops, comic cons, horror movies and all things macabre. I play video games, read a lot, and I enjoy writing, coloring and crafting. I’m a bit of a nerd, comics, Star Wars, etc. I have a huge collection of stuffed animals. I do smoke 🍃, it’s fine if you don’t though:) I also enjoy lots of music and movies!

We can talk kinks more in depth and what not and can discuss things further about what you’re looking for, or if you have any questions. Feel free to dm me if you think we’d be a good fit! Can’t wait to hear from you! 💕