Been reading Reddit and trying dating apps. So much selfishness. So much “what’s in it for me?” Spouses checking the other’s phone, fighting over social media posts. My grandparents were married 60 years. My parents, also 60 . They still go on dates. It’s called a partnership. You look out for your partner--have their back, no matter what (unless there’s abuse, to be clear).

Yes, I’m older, but not ready to give up the dream. In many ways, age is just a number. Sure, some ways it's not. But so much of it is attitude mental, physical, and emotional health. I’ve known mature men and women in their 30s who were more mature than counterparts in their 50s. We all probably know people like that.

So, if you’re reading this and have wished to build a family, build a life, build and create a loving home with a partner who is 100% supportive and unconditionally loving, then I hope you’ll get in touch. I don’t care what age you are as long as you are still fertile or able to have children. I’ve recently had tests done myself, and without making this TMI, let's just say my swimmers are good to go.

About Me:

• I have my own business, strong work ethic, and can provide. Doesn’t mean you have to stay home, but if you want, YES, we can do that. I can also easily relocate. I work online and am not tied to any location.
• I believe in real partnership. No matter our ages, we're partners. I'll have your back, always, 100%. You'll never doubt where I stand or how I feel about you or the children we bring into this world. No games. Every single day, you'll know that you and our kids are the most important thing in my life.
• As partners and parents, we're a team. No one comes before you and our children. We have a problem to solve, imagine we’re sitting together on one side of a table. And the problem? It’s sitting on the other side, across from us. From that perspective, we find a way. We will never sit on opposite sides of the table, because if we fight each other over problems we need to solve together, we're fucked. Besides, I tend to be very easy to get along with. Few things ruffle my feathers. Benefit of age.
• I've worked doing many things in life, but clearly gifted at working with children and as such, being a parent. I work with children now every day with extraordinary success. And I feel strongly that my path as a father is simply not finished.
• My health is important to me. I am in great shape, eat well, exercise regularly, and most people never guess my age correctly. They don’t guess 25, but usually 50. While not drop-dead handsome, I'm not unattractive either. With dating apps, I do get dates, but it’s just too much of a shit show. Given that we’re not gonna be popping out babies tomorrow, I wanna get this show on the road. I feel certain that somewhere out there, there's a woman who has a similar vision, and shared visions and dreams are powerful things.

In his book, The Little Prince, Antoine de Saint-Exupéry wrote, “Love does not consist in gazing at each other, but in looking outward together in the same direction.”

~With that quote in mind, I’m looking for a woman who:

• Has vision, grit, and cannot imagine life without children and a family.
• Values open communication, trust, and emotional connection.
• Appreciates the beauty of teamwork and multiple perspectives.

~Our future:

• Cozy family dinners, bedtime stories, singing and songs galore, and weekend adventures.
• Together, we create memories, celebrate milestones, and navigate life’s challenges.
• We watch our children grow, support their passions, and foster a loving environment by modeling it.
• Our home and lives are filled with unconditional love, pets, books, adventure, laughter, and exploration.

~Why Reddit?

• I believe genuine connections can happen online; I believe the right person is out there.
• If my words strike a chord or resonate within you, send me note and tell me why. Please reach out via chat and include a picture. I’ll gladly reply with one myself.
• If you got this far, that's some grit right there! I’m impressed. I hope you’ll write. Thank you!