Hey there, and thank you for reading. Where in the past I've kept things like these short, I've decided to go out on a limb and bare a lot. Not everything, since there has to be some mystery, obviously :)

I'm K, I live in the Antwerp area. Used to work in finance, reschooled for programming, but turns out that the issue is more with me not feeling great in the classic corporation/profit driven organisation. So I'm now looking for a way to still contribute to society, but in a way that makes me feel good about myself.

I have Bechterew, have been depressed for large parts of my life, and a complicated history with family. I'm in therapy for most of these things, both physical and mental. This also comes with medication, which I partially resolve with self medicating. I'll share more details when you get in touch.

I have two cats who I love dearly. I have no child wish, but am not opposed to you already having kids. Family is kinda important to me. In the future, I'd prefer to move to warmer climes, but probably stay in Europe. I would like to travel outside Europe in the future.

I love reading, gaming, walking when I can, cuddling with the cats, deep talks. I present masculine, but am not committed to classical gender roles and find them constricting at best, and harmful at worst.

Who am I looking for? I'd love you to share some of my hobbies, so we have something fun to talk about when we're not having deep talks. Appearance wise I do believe there has to be attraction for both of us, as shallow as that might seem. So be prepared to share a pic, I will obviously do the same.
I'm also left, and doubtful to move from that position. I believe in all that "woke" stuff, so if that triggers you we wouldn't be a good match

I'm open to people younger and older :-)

If this hasn't made you running and screaming for the exit, please reach out to me. And use the word pineapple please :-)