Hello Everyone

I am looking for a meaningful relationship that encompasses:

• Love
• Care
• Nurturing
• Affection
• Kindness
• Acceptance
• Understanding
• Acceptance
• Trust
• Honesty
• Non-materialistic
• Non-Judgemental
• Respect
• Romance
• Passion

The above is a very quick list of components that I would really like in the meaningful relationship that I seek.

I also have some other components that I would like but are not crucial but would be great if you ok with it:

• 1950 Style or Traditional Relationship
• Kink & Fetish & Fantasies (BDSM)
• Gender roles

I am quite interested in the 1950's Style or Traditional Relationship but like that it can have a modern twist to it and be adjusted to the relationship that is being had, to make it more compatible and fully accepted by both parties.

I am also interested in kink, fetish and fantasies. It would be great that would we could explore each others, once trust has been established.

I am also interested in gender roles, where we both have our own gender roles that work for us and that can be tailored to us. They don't have to mean that you do all the female duties and tasks. I am fine with helping and doing the tasks (except for child birth and breast feeding).

The 3 components above that would be great to have as part of our relationship are just things that would be great to have but not crucial. So very happy to discuss these with you and talk about them in more detail.

Things I know I don't want:

• Kids = if you want and desire kids than I am not suited to you.

• Marriage = If you want marriage I am not suited to you.

• Moving in quickly = If you seek to move in quickly then I am not suited to you.

I am the kind of person that likes to take my time to getting to know a person and that person getting to know me. Life is not a race and I live life like a tortoise.

I know posting in this subreddit could cause upset and confusion on why I am posting on here when I don't seek kids or marriage. It is because I want to receive love and give love in a traditional manner. That is something that seems to just be part of my being.

I am not here to extort you for your possessions or the money that you have. I hope you also don't have the same thoughts for me.

Below are some details about myself:

Here are my physical details: - I am 43, 5ft 11inches, average build, hairy, with a hairy chest, oval face, dark hair, brown eyes, tanned olive skin, salt and pepper beard.

Here are my internal details: - I am pansexual demisexual polyamorous (enm), quiet, secure, peaceful, calm, kind, caring, loving, considerate, soft, gentle, authentic, genuine, lonewolf, spiritual, straightforward, no-nonsense, honest, truthful, direct, non-materialistic, minimalist, self-aware, free-spirit. bit of a hippy, logical, rational, critical thinker, non-judgmental.

The details above will give you an idea about myself but also allow you to assess if my details align with you and are things you would accept. Again, I am very happy to chat about things in more detail.

I have a preference to chat online (Reddit Chat) for some time before things move on. So you need to be ok with this. After some time I am fine with moving our chats to another platform.

I am based in the UK but am open to having chats with people in the USA and Europe. Im not interested in having nude photos of you or sending nude photos. I am more interested in having a mental connection that then leads to a meaningful relationship of 2 souls.

Thank you for reading. If anything in this post is of interest, send me a chat request.