I don't know why she's leaving, or where she's gonna go I guess she's got her reasons, but I just don't wanna know Cause for 35 years I've been living next door to Alice 35 years just waitin' for a chance To tell her how I feel and maybe get a second glance Now I gotta get used to not living next door to Alice

Single F,  Europe, 35 y.o., 168 sm/64 kg, pale skin, average building (not fat), long hairs. No kids. No bad habits. Hobbies: reading, old movies, cultural events, museums, art galleries. Wish to travel and to live in sunny warm place in Europe, since all life pass in place, where it's cold, days are short, nights are long for most part of the year. I search for intelligent marriage minded cultural geek.

1. That one, who will want to marry me AND will be able to meet in real life soon. Please, write in your first message, when you are able to meet, if we match.

2. You already live in Europe (exactly continental Europe) or plan to live there in soon future. With all respect for UK habitants, UK is not a continental Europe. You can live anywhere now, if you don't mind living later in continental Europe. Exect country is for further discussion.

3. You are officially single and don't have kids. No exceptions from this rule.

4. Expect, that I'm not from your country and you will have to travel. If you date only girls from your own country and can't travel, please, don't text.

5. I search for honest serious, quiet, logical, intelligent man, who has own place or plan to have it soon and can be a provider. Your age, appearance are not important. I prefer older person, who already knows, what he wants, who's love language is acts of service, not just words. Honesty is extremely important.

6. You shouldn't be pushy about having kid fast. If you want many kids, please, don't text. You are heterosexual, no exceptions. Sex is not a main thing in relationship for you. If it is, please, don't text.

7. You shouldn't demand to share expenses, because I wish to be stay at home wife (though I have high education and work experience).

8. You can take my problems, as your own and will not run away, when know about my health problems, that demand surgical help (not plastic surgery, but more serious. Not in urgent condition, but if not to do anything, then can become urgent. All papers are on hands, ready to prove that need, when we meet, both in papers and in together visit to surgeon). Why do I mention this? Because 99% of men expect to build relationships with successful, healthy woman without any problems, who will never need any help from him, who will not be a burden in any way, who will stay young, sexually active and healthy forever. Most of men event don't have an idea to do anything real for her. They call that "to be with a girlfriend". So I just save your time in case, if you "want a girlfriend experience" without any responsibility.

9. You are able to make voice and video calls in teleg r1am, when I ask for it. If you can't for any reason, please, don't text.

10. I am very introverted by nature and when like someone, this person becomes almost a center of my world, I don't need any other men, I'm one-man-woman. I wish someone, who is same, one-woman-men.

11. Often people hate those, who are different from them, simply just for fact of their existence. So I need someone, who will not be irritated with my existence and hobbies. I don't expect you to share these hobbies, but I just ask to be ok with it. It's difficult to imagine, that someone, who is deeply in gaming or sport will accept me as I am. I think, that only cultural geek will be able to accept me and not be irritated or bored near me. Good, when people can share hobby and interest. I can't share interest to gaming or sport watching, for a pity. Just not my thing. But I definitely will be ok with you doing your hobbies, even if I can't join.

I met few really good people here. They don't fit almost any of my points. That doesn't make them worse in any way, but I have doubts, that we will ever meet. Schemes shouldn't replace real life and connections with person as he is. Still I hope this text have more clear idea to like minded people, because we are different, and we feel not comfortable with those, who are too different and like opposite things in life.

If you feel something common and think, you can be that man, then, please, write me about yourself and let's start our conversation. Thanks for your attention.