Good morning/afternoon/night, i hope you’re having a wonderful day! ^{_^} before messaging me please read my entire message 🥲 and I completely understand sometimes not wanting to write an essay to say hi…but at least a little introduction since I sift through my messages with the introductions!

my (online) name is Xochi, and I’m looking for an older gentleman who I can grow with and get to know..and maybe develop a relationship where we treat everyday as an opportunity to love each other more (cheesy ik ☹️). I do have preferences that I’ll mention, but please..if we sound compatible im not thatt picky with my preferencesso just hmu ^{_^}

Values are so important in a relationship and hopefully we have the same ones! Obviously I’m looking for a long term relationship so no hookups or fwb. I’m also looking for something online at first, and I prefer that you’re in California so that we can eventually meet. I want to go to college and pursue my education and also a career that I can tell you more about later…lol. I am not sure about kids yet…but I’m sure with the right person I most likely will. Also one last thing..I’m very sure I want to save myself for marriage but am willing to go into other avenues 🤭 we can talk more about that in DMs, so ya!

I am extremely firm on respect, communication, most importantly understanding each other. I will always try my hardest to respect you and your needs/wants, and you as my partner. I also want us to have trust and communication so that we may talk things out, because I absolutely hate arguing. I always try my hardest to be reasonable, and understanding your point of view and hopefully you’ll do the same!

I have such a boring social life so I spend most of my time crocheting, drawing, listening to music, playing Overwatch 2, doing school work, and sleeping. I’m a hermit basically lol, but I am so open to traveling and going out ! I’m a mostly introverted ambivert.

A little about my physical appearance..I’m 4’10 and have an average build but I’m trying to get better with baby steps! I’d say I have a pretty average body, so if you’re looking for instagram model worthy models…I’m not there..yet! And I can show you a pic once we get comfortable with each other.

So.. my preferences! I have always had a thing for older and mature guys but I do have a limit..which is around thirties, and if you need an exact number I’d say 30-35 is my max! I am such a sucker for size differences.. not necessary but if you’re tall pls hmu 😫 I love short beards/stubble or a clean face, beautiful eyes (brown eyes included), and accents are so cute but not a dealbreaker lol. If you’re fit..bonus points. If you have a dad bod, bonus points. If you’re somewhat in between, bonus points for u too lol! Not very picky on body type, all I ask is that you are a mostly healthy.

I’m so sorry for making this long…but if you took the time to read this, thank you!! Ask me what my favorite anime or my favorite song is if you made it to the end of this college essay lol.