This text is only for HONEST single M without kids and dogs, without dream to have them, strictly monogamous, from any country (city habitant), who searches for wife. I prefer age older > 35 (older - better), but this is not a must. You can be Christian (practicing or not) or atheist. Some explanations about this are in the end of the text.

Important, CHAT DOESN'T WORK CORRECTLY. I can't see and reply to chat requests, can't fix it. Text to letter section. How to do that? Open my profile > More options > Send message. Not chat but message, please.

I'm a single F from Ukraine (can meet with you in another country, more safe for you). I search for an HONEST single childless M > 35 (older - better) for a serious relationship, first without physical aspects. Your country, age &; appearance are not important. I wish you are self-employed, your own master &; boss or digital nomad, who is not bent strongly with certain place of living or office shedual, but that is not a strict demand. You can be employee, bent to certain place &; shedual (I have always been only in that category). I wish to meet someone, who can meet during next 2 months.

Four qualities are important for me.

Honesty is a first quality that I search for. I have met few men in reddit, who lied about every aspect of their life. I don't want to talk with someone, who will lie or hide something. The truth comes sooner or later, and when it happens, that breaks the heart. I expect honesty from start till end, even if truth is not beautiful. When you discover lie for a first time, you make yourself to close eyes on that, you try to forgive, but be sure, soon that will repeat many times and you will feel broken. My sad experience showed that clearly. If a person is a lair by nature, that can't be improved, such man will bring only pain.

Second is freedom. That is closely connected with trust, safety and honesty. I don't want to be ignored for weeks any more, I want to have access to person in any time with a hope to get reply at least once in a day or two maximum. I want to meet someone, in whom I can be sure and with whom I can feel peace in mind, not constant stress. Lies and ignoring bring too much stress.

Third is not to be jealous. I will not give reasons for that but jealousy leads to very painful relationship, I don't want that. Before, I tried to be good for that one, with whom I planned to meet. I deleted my reddit account and stopped all further search, waiting for this person. He promised to meet, but he cheated. So please, don't expect me to talk only with you until we meet. I don't consider bare words without true actions as something real any more. I will search until meet with someone in real life. If you feel uncomfortable about that, and you expect a woman to talk only with you and to delete her account, then I'm not your variant, because I have been in such situation and it ended badly.

Fourth is the ability to forgive, it is connected with kindness. All of us make mistakes, and some mistakes can be forgiven. I don't talk now about situation, when you discovered, that husband/wife cheated with other women/men or some really serious things, like drug/alcohol additions. But about smaller sins, that may happen, when you live with a person for a long time. Kindness is connected with wish not to torture a person. Not to make him to suffer, not to press him. Not giving pain to this person. No need to explain all this if a person is truly in love. For a pity, not everyone is able to love. Some people were born to give pain. Constant lairs will bring only pain.

Sometimes men expect physical aspects very fast &; leave fast, if not get it soon. In my opinion, this means the first interest was not in the relationship itself, but in these aspects. That's why I want to find a relationship first without it.

Right person for me is someone, who will be happy staying with me &; will do everything for me by his own wish. That might be very hard - to deal with someone. Easier to be alone and not to deal with people at all. That's why many people choose to stay alone. Nothing bad in that, it can be understood.

If things work, I can relocate to you or to invite you to live in Ukraine after the war ends. If you are able to set up app called telegram for chat &; meet in real life during next two months, then please text me. I prefer well written letter, that was sent in inbox letters, not in chat requests.

Now more details about me. Never been married, no kids (will not have in the nearest time and probably will never have), no pets . Was raised in small village at farmer's house (the nature was great but didn't like the hardworking lifestyle) &; prefer city life. I don't smoke, don't drink alcohol. You will not have to suffer dealing with numerous people around me, because I don't have friends (connections disappear when interests and lifestyles become different) &; my family is very small. I don't visit bars, clubs or parties &; not addicted to social networks. As an introvert, I can't open to someone fast, because have been cheated by those who trusted. Life teaches, only real actions show the true person's intentions, not just his words. Hobbies are reading, old music &; old films, museums, theaters, visiting new places &; just going for a walk with someone with whom conversation can be good. In general I like to listen to people.

About 4 negative moments. The first is my passivity. I was raised in a culture, where it was considered vulgar, if a woman is too active in the path of creating a relationship. Yes, it is obvious that active women will get success sooner than passive one, but I can't change myself &; prefer the one, who will take initiative &; will be just classic old-fashioned gentleman. I don't like to attract unwanted attention of every man, because I'm very selective in what I search. A person, whom I wish to meet, will not be attracted to provocative look, red lipstick and artificial leashes. That doesn't mean that I'm too ugly. I'm average, not too ugly, not too fat, but I don't like to show off myself to everyone &; not interested in men, who like to attract additional women's attention too. I want someone really serious &; reliable, who will be only for me, not for all other women behind my back.

The second negative moment is that being introverted, I totally dislike situation when I have to contact with unknown people, especially with men, especially in field of relationship. That sounds not logical because how can someone know anyone if he/she doesn't like starting this contact? There is only one solution for me. I can start contact only if I have already got very detailed information about person so this makes illusion that he is already not a stranger. Most of the men send a short message, expecting that I will ask many questions trying to find out his personality. The truth is that I will not do it. Yes, you can call me bad for that, but I will reply only to well written detailed letter from someone who will not make me to ask many questions but will write proper letter with basic information by himself. A man's appearance means nothing for me, but what he does - that's important.

Number three is about infidelity. Whose fault is it when people have a relationship with the wrong partners? No one's. I need someone who can be happy with only one woman in his life. Lifelong relationship. Who is not too concentrated on his sexual organs, that's important. No peaceful life with a man, who is mentally too stressed with that sphere and stays in constant search of adventures.

Fourth is about animals. I like animals in general, both pets &; wild. Till certain moment I thought that I prefer dogs. I stayed in an area where people are not used to put a mask or walking rope on a dog. Some people even just let them go for a walk without owners. Sometimes that lead to unpleasant situations, when dogs attack people, I got such experience. With all respect to dog lovers, I would prefer not to stay with a dog owner. Totally understand those. Who will prefer his dog better, then relationship with neurotic person, who is afraid of dogs.

That were negative moments. Obviously, there are much more of them, but I'll let you discover the size of all iceberg by yourself. Thanks for reading.

P.S. Please, be patient &; don't expect fast replies, sometimes it is not easy to do due to many reasons.

P.S.S. Chat doesn't work correctly and doesn't show messages and requests there. Text only in letters section.