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Hi!

I'm a 30-year-old divorced conservative Christian woman without children looking for a nice older (ideally 45-75) man in the USA who wants a pure relationship that will lead to marriage. I have a bachelor's in psychology and I work in the medical field (with health information). I love animals and all kinds of music (especially rock). I can cook, clean, and take care of children. I am honest, modest, loyal, and kind. I do not smoke or use recreational drugs. I would keep my heart and my gaze only to my future spouse. I have virtually no baggage from my past (I do have a past but it stays in the past and I want to build a new life ground level up with my soulmate). My husband will feel very loved and appreciated and if he is treating me correctly, I would submit and generally let him call the shots.

What I'm looking for is a monogamous man who is also conservative and who ideally doesn't have any dependent children still living with him. I prefer men who don't smoke or use recreational drugs. I'm a huge animal lover so I am probably not the right fit for men who enjoy hunting (no offense). I tend to believe in more traditional gender roles, with the woman being primarily a homemaker, though I can keep working if absolutely necessary. I would love to find a husband who is protective, nurturing, and who genuinely wants to take care of his wife and any children we may have. I'm sapiosexual which means I'm primarily attracted to intelligence. I do eventually want to end up in something monogamous, so if you're the type of person who has many female friends or who likes to keep their exes around, we probably wouldn't make a good match. Additionally, given my strong Christian beliefs, I am only looking to date men who don't watch porn or follow provocative accounts. Before the trolls jump on me, once married or in a relationship, my current partner would be the ONLY man I am paying attention to, so I would expect the exact same in return. No, I will not keep "male friends" around so I would expect him not to keep "female friends" around either. It's only fair.

I like men of all shapes, sizes, and abilities. Personally, I am a BBW type with red hair and blue eyes. Ideally I'd like to find a man who is at least cool with plus size women or who has that specific preference (if that's not your thing I completely understand but please just keep looking). I reiterate: if you would prefer someone slender or athletic, I am not the right girl for you.

God bless anyone who is reading this!!! If you are seriously interested in what I mentioned above, feel free to DM me! I just ask that you be respectful and non-aggressive when you DM me. :)

Please do not message me if:

-You're going to lie about anything whatsoever (if I catch you in a lie I'll break contact with you)

-You're still talking to your ex or if you have many "female friends" you'd insist on keeping around even if you were legally married

-You don't have your lust in check (this is one of the disciplines of a Godly man and something I look for in a spouse)

-You primarily just want to talk about sex. Consent and boundaries always apply, even online!

N.B: Distance is not an issue but it would be best if the man could relocate to my area (Virginia, USA).

Disclaimer 1: Yes, I know my preference for older men is unusual and yes, my family is very supportive of it. If your friends/family would give you a hard time about dating a younger consenting adult like me, and if their opinions are your ultimate deciding factor, please don't lead me on or waste my time.

Disclaimer 2: Due to religious convictions and personal preference, I am not willing to have sex outside of marriage. In other words, I'm saving myself for remarriage. If this won't work for you, kindly skip over me. Please don't message me trying to debate this or asking if I'd make an exception for "the right person" because the answer is no (sorry). :) I reiterate: even though I have been married before, I only want to have sex with people I am legally married to. If this bothers you, I assure you the internet is FULL of women looking for sex, so you should have no trouble finding that with someone else. I wouldn't attack you for sleeping around so please respect my decision to keep my legs together while single. :)

*****I am not interested in any type of kinky lifestyle or any type of porn*****