I’ve always connected better with older men, and actually prefer older men (my ideal age range is 30-44) since they’re usually more mature and know what they want. So, I’m here. Despite dealing with social burnout from work, I do try to go out and meet people. It’s not going well because I haven’t met anyone but I’m making an effort. Too many games are being played in dating because I feel like no one takes it seriously and while I am on Hinge, I question if it’s worth it sometimes. Not trying to be desperate, just trying to put myself out there.

About me: I am 24 years young and a straight female. Physically, I am a petite and curvy natural redhead. I graduated with my bachelor’s this year (I know, but everyone goes at different paces) and plan to go for my master’s. Since I work with kids and plan to keep working with them, I do not want any of my own. Politically, I call myself a progressive liberal. It may be a turnoff to some but when I was four I was diagnosed with Asperger’s, now under the autism spectrum umbrella. It does not affect me as much as an adult compared to when I was younger and I’m happy to educate you if you’re willing to learn. I’m a diehard Carolina Hurricanes fan and love going to their games. I also love animals, crafts, writing, baking/cooking, supporting local, and working out.

What I look for in a man: Since I live in the Triangle (think Raleigh) region of North Carolina, I am looking in that area. I want someone educated because I want to have intelligent conversations and someone who has similar family plans and political beliefs. Ironically, I don’t see myself dating men who are also on the spectrum or have some other form of neurodiversity because a potential career path might be working with children on the spectrum. Physically, I like men who are tall, in shape or working on it because I am working on my physical health and want someone who I can share that goal with, and who have a little scruff or beard and dimples. I don’t mind tattoos or piercings since I have some too and I find myself mainly attracted to white or Native American guys. I do not smoke tobacco or weed nor do I use recreational drugs, so I don’t want to date someone with those vices. I drink sometimes but not all the time. Important character traits to me are kindness, honesty, patience, and open-mindedness. I cannot stress enough how important clear and consistent communication is, so I expect that from a partner.

What I hope to get out of this: forming a connection with the right person and eventually starting a monogamous long-term relationship. I politely request that you reach out via direct chat. I know this is a long post and I sound difficult to please, I promise I’m not. I just know what I want.