hi!

tldr: looking for a dominant older gentleman interested in talking everyday and establishing a close bond and seeing where it goes

i am an ambitious grad student searching for consistent and meaningful companionship as i navigate my goals and start my life.

I have been scorned in the past by other men who piqued my interest but ended up not having interest in me romantically. As i start school back again, i miss having a male companion to text throughout the day and wanted to speak to me on the phone.

I am extremely busy and applying to PhDs but want someone i can slow down and break with. i want someone who wants to help me plan my meal prep menus and sit on the phone while i research and work and talk about nothing. i want to talk to him and look forward to talking him

a little about me: i am getting an MA in International Affairs and has had a lifelong goal of getting a PhD. For the past few years I have been focusing on studying nationalism and national identity and intend on becoming an expert and contributing to the greater body of research. as much as I love my research i am looking to get a mental break. i want to look forward to someone and vice versa.

as i apply for PhDs i want someone who i can say hey lets make a weekend of visiting the school. going places together. random fridays of hanging out over facetime or in person. watching tv shows together. will you be my reason to take a break?

me: - curvy, full figured blck girl with shoulder length locs. i am short tho - often found in big sweaters and napping when not researching, in class, or at work. - looking for something mostly platonic with some hints of romance. really looking for casual companionship without full on commitment due to goals unless we find that we are compatible

you: - older than me, loves/prefers phone calls over texts - looking for a casual consistent companion with romantic vibes with the potential to possibly move from that stage after time - dominant personality (not toxic dominant) - not intimidated by my goals

if you got down here, thanks for reading! i dont really like responding to hi or receiving hi without anything else. What interested you? whats your favourite colour? how was your day?