Just curious. My last agr was a 30 year gap and I can count on one hand how many times she paid for anything. Now I have a bi couple looking for a triad at a gap of 32 years. They tend to pick up the bills a lot. Just wondering who else has this experience. Who pays when you go out?

Edit: context. I am economically much more advantaged than my ex. Towards the end of our time together it was mentioned that my generosity was manipulative, but I'm really feeling like that was projection. The manipulation was coming from the other side.

Edit: At this point it doesn't matter. She broke up with me 7 months ago seems while I bought steak dinners I wasn't attractive enough. Now she has a guy 15 years younger who's tall with long hair and he can turn $5 worth of hamburger into just the best.