So a year ago(ish) i posted here, and r/agegap , and r/LDR . Well a year later we're still doing amazing. (/u/I_Am_Anjelen is my partner ) We have had a few things come up with closing the gap. Mainly just money issues on my side because im young and stupid. And i know that. Im learning, and thats okay! Anyways we're doing amazing ive been back in the US for 5months now and im gonna be here for at least another 3 months.

I love him and weve had the talks about how repetitive i am on the whole "I miss you", "i want to cuddle", and other very obvious statements on why im sad/depressed. I get really bad depressive episodes sometimes. And he's been nothing but supportive. Its just hard to be 4000miles (6000km) away from him. He's the healthiest partner ive ever had. He has been great on helping me learn and overcome certain issues with my parents.

On the topic of my parents they were really harmful towards him last year mainly because of the 22 year age gap, and his past. But they've grown to look past the age gap. They still bring up his past and what happened multiple times as if i would forget. I really dont care about his past. Its in his past. He hasnt shown any sign of wanting to do what happened again. Simply because why would he want to loose me? Im a hot 21 year old who is going to marry him later this year.(or early next year depending on when my savings reaches €6k.)

But it still urks me that my parents tend to "poke the proverbial bear" to see if it upsets me. Not that long ago they told my entire family what had happened in his past and i went off on them because that wasnt their information to tell. And now I'm just trying to do damage control while being the legit black sheep of the family who now has death threats FROM FAMILY members. They've often said that they would shoot him if he every came to the US again. He wont come to this state because of everything. Its been ridiculously hard to accept the fact that I am just stuck here for another 3-7 months with these people my parents call family.

I will be going no contact with basically my entire family. And i do have multiple backup plans for everything. Its just crazy. The last year has been super crazy. But i went had fun came back. And now i never want to come back the next time.

Tldr:I have had an amazing relationship, but my bio family is treating me and him horribly because of his past.