Posting

Most of the posts we remove are because people think they don't need to read the rules or obey them. In particular people seem to ignore the rule requiring their location in the title.

We have set the required format of the title so the automoderator can automatically removed posts which do not comply with our rules. The required format of titles is

• Age e.g. 26
• (optional) relationship type tag e.g. [F4M]
• Location including state and nearest large city starting with a # e.g. #California, LANote the presence of the # is important as is the comma. If you are in a smaller country we will accept your country plus a district or county e.g #UK, North West
• If you have not put a tag, you must put the appropriate relationship flair when posting.

Putting this together a legal title for a post should look like this:

26 [F4M] #California, Sunnydale - blonde seeks older vampire for stake night

or providing you use a flair:

26 #California, Sunnydale - blonde seeks older vampire for stake night

The most important thing before you do anything is to make sure you have read our subreddit rules. The rules are at the side of the Subreddit (or on a tab if you're using the mobile app), it's not too difficult to read them, but somehow people manage to do so, and then get butthurt when their post or comment is removed. Moderators will not necessarily enforce these rules to the letter, so do not expect someone who 'bends' these rules to be removed, but anyone who the moderators feel is 'taking the piss' certainly will be.

Our rules are explained in detail in our Wiki.

Comments

We only allow people with a lot of karma or who have become an approved user (you need to have a 'good' comment history to be considered, plus over 500 karma) to post comments. Make sure you have read our rules very carefully before you apply to become approved.

We've found that most comments are by guys asking women who post to talk to them, so we've prevented commenting on posts because if you want someone to talk to you, you just send them a message or start a chat with them.

Reporting

Please note that the moderators do not pay much attention to reports for the simple reason we get lots of fake reports (e.g. 68 year old guy reported for 'being a minor'). We normally only use reporting to alert us to issues that our automod filters have detected. Please only use reporting for issues that are fairly obvious.

If you think or know someone is posting a fake advert or seriously breaking our rules, please send the mods a message.

Moderators are unpaid and only moderate in their free time, so please do not be surprised if we take anything from 30 seconds to 24 hours to act on issues