For me, this is more about control than sex. This is more than simply typing random instructions or insults at you. You can find that anywhere - but not here.

Of course, sex is a natural part of our lives and will be included, but the majority of the relationship I seek here will be based in your thoughts, behaviors, intentions, ambitions and self esteem.

The following are necessary components for me : (i.e., if any/all are hard limits for you, we are probably not a good fit)

• daily communication – you're on your phone/Reddit nearly every day anyway!;
• pics/video/voice - SFW and/or g-rated to begin (face not necessary). NSFW and/or x-rated will be open for discussion at a later date, but not an absolute necessity for me;
• actual punishments - this is where pics/vids are absolutely integral - anyone can be anything behind a keybored - including me, I need to see the body writing, I need to hear the recitation of a punishment phrase, I need to see the altered clothing, etc...(these are just off the top of my head and may/may not pe part of any actual relationship);
• actual rewards - yes, go get yourself something pretty or sexy or both, be proud of yourself when you earn your rewards, and I will be proud of you.

The "T" in TPE is TOTAL - but obviously includes limits. They will be respected, but I'm going to assume that you want to explore yours. Sometimes 'real life' gets in the way, but if you respond to this post, it is essential that you want to incorporate this dynamic into that real life.

Be well.

ENJOY!

This is at the end because it includes a minor instruction to show that you've reached the end AND willing to follow such minor instructions immediately. Send me a chat - not a message - that includes a pic of the phrase "Hello William" written on a piece of paper. Nothing else should be in the pic.. no body shot, no face, nothing - just the piece of paper. Simple, right? Then we can start this journey of ours.