I’m (35m) casual seeing a young woman (18f) and am having a great time getting to know her. However, I have a particular sexuality that many younger women haven’t experienced yet. I’m very much into kink-oriented sex, especially regarding cum play and watersports. I didn’t explore those fetishes until my early 30s and most women I’ve enjoyed those kinks with have been around my age or older.

I don’t want to scare her off but at the same time, sexual compatibility is a deal breaker for me. I think it is true that sexual desires change as people mature. She doesn’t have a lot of experience and I don’t want her to think I’m just using her. If she was older, I wouldn’t be so nervous to mention it, but because she is so much younger, I’m having a difficult time finding the right way to tell her my needs and desires. Any ideas?