Hi!

I’m a 33-year-old male, and I’ve been facing a recurring challenge when it comes to building long-term relationships with women who are older than me. Things usually start off really well. We share a great connection, and the dynamic feels positive and enjoyable. However, as the relationship progresses, the topic of age often comes up, and I notice a shift. They start to pull back, expressing concerns or assumptions that I might eventually prefer to be with someone younger.

I find this difficult to navigate because I genuinely value the connection and don’t see age as a barrier. I’d love to hear advice or perspectives on how to approach this situation and reassure my partner about my intentions for the relationship.