I've been on 3 dates with a really great guy who happens to be 23. I'm actually shocked we connected as well as we did. He's spontaneous and fun. I love it!

I'll cut to the chase. I like him. I want to pursue. But I don't want to be too in his business or bothering him. 2 weeks in I know to continue playing it cool. We do not know each other.

But I'm curious from the younger guys here. What kind of flirts, date ideas, texts/snaps do you like?

As a person I'm very accomplished and have a ton going for me. I've become very successful and have some really cool hobbies. And I think I look alright too. My primary concern is just....communicating without scaring them away. Also, I don't want to come off as grandstanding or trying to buy him. Typically I am very forward with my desires / intentions. But I think thay coukd easily scare off a 23 year old.

What are your thoughts?