Hi,

I recently got involved with someone with 29 years age gap (I’m F younger).

It looks to be his first age gap experience. I was drawn in because he’s been hinting left and right that he wants me; I like being wanted so I went with it.

He said all the things that guys say ‘I’m the gift of his life; I’m a dream come true, etc.’ but the reality is when we are out and about any girl with some skin showing grabs his complete attention to a point that is very uncomfortable for me.

I’m tall slender and previously modelled so I know what I am and what I have.

He tells me a lot how he wonders people perceive us publicly and if his circle finds out it’ll uproot his life and he will be laughed at etc.

I tried to reassure him and told him to just relax and enjoy the moment getting to know each other but everytime I do he comes up with another obstacle. Frankly I don’t know if he’s just wanting to pull out but can’t do it or he’s just genuinely sharing his concerns.

Any input from anyone with a similar experience?

I said to him I cannot make things make sense to him, only offer my perspective. But tbh I’m cooling off about this guy because to me he’s making it harder than it should be.