So I recently have met a girl from on here and she has been great. She seems to be into alot of the same kinks that I am into. I have toyed with some of the kinks in the past but never properly and never got to truly be the dom for bdsm and ddlg but she seems like it would be a fantasy come true for her.

The problem is she is not sure if she wants to keep it online only or for it to play our irl as afraid she would be seen and recognised with me and since there is also a significant age gap worried about others perceptions.

I am torn between being kind, caring understanding and patient compared to being the dom with being assertive and telling it will happen. Not sure which way to go as I would love to take her back to mine and live out some of the things we have talked about but worried I would scare her off if I choose the assertive route.

At the end of the day I would really just enjoy getting to know her in person and if we hit it off in person like we have online then we could go from there as well.

Something to note is she just recently turned 18 and hasn't learnt how to drive so can just drive the 40ish min to where I live or meet me somewhere as we live in country Australia