Hello guys. My boyfriend (18) went to a Halloween party with me at my friend’s place and after we went to a club where clearly the girls wanted to hit him up. Well, he was really happy and enjoying maybe his second club night ever. I’m 25. Almost 8 years older than him and now I feel very bad because after this night he told me that during the party while he speak with the other girls he felt that he wish we had meet after/latter.

Should I bring this up to him? Like, how it was for you to become mature and have a relationship? A lot changed?

Well, I’m of course experienced with relationships but I never had such an age gap as now and I don’t know. How many of you keep dating the same girl that was with you at your 18’s? I don’t know if there is couples like this out there but, if there is help me.

I want to know if he needs space to grow up. I have been thinking that maybe I’m just delaying our break up at this point.