My (30f) husband's (58m) son (35m) is bringing his girlfriend over! It's really exciting and I am so happy for his son. My husband's son has delt with severe mental illness for a number of years. Because of this he hasn't had a real relationship since high-school. We're both elated for him, but I'd be lying if I said I wasn't a little nervous. My husband's kids have been great about our relationship. And their significant others have also been been amazing anytime we've interacted. While I don't give a shit what strangers think, I always get uneasy anytime we meet a new couple or new significant other. I can't help but imagine they think I'm a gold digging TwatWaffle. I wish I could lay out an Excell sheet showing how I budget our money and also make my own money. It's so silly, I know, but it's my biggest fear. Maybe it's because I love my husband so genuinely, that the thought of anyone thinking otherwise enrages me to my core. Anywho, it's great news for his son and I am so happy for both my husband and his son.