Didn't ever think I'd need to make this post! Hi guys, you may have seen me post ads on r/agegappersonals and r/oldermanpersonals. I am currently trying to find a FWB, with like, a genuine friendship being part of it, and oh my god, it's like a goddamn swamp. It's genuinely like talking to 13 year old boys. Can't get 10 messages in without a weird attempted sexting or something weird like "don't wear underwear to our first date." FFS, we don't even know if we have IRL chemistry yet! WE'VE SENT A TOTAL OF MAYBE 15 TEXTS MAX!!!!!

I just want to make decent friends with an older guy, have sex with him, do fun activities and such together, and generally just have a casual but genuine FWB situation. I feel like I'm not asking for a unicorn, but please let me know if I am LOL

What can I add or take away from my ads to get better quality men to reply? I can take a hard truth, I give em here 24/7, so please help me out 🩷