I (21F) have been seeing this guy (33M) for a few weeks and things are going well. I've never been with someone so much older and I'm really starting to see how great a relationship like this can be. He's super sweet, the sex is amazing, there's a lower level of attraction I have but I see it growing the more we get to know each other. We started out just hooking up and we quickly found that we have a great connection and spark not just sexually but emotionally to the point where I would consider dating him. However, this would come with so many issues. Approval from family and friends is my main concern. I don't want him to be a secret, especially if we eventually become serious. Maybe this is anxiety jumping ahead in my brain but I'm just so nervous about starting something I won't be able to finish. I've come to care about this man a lot very quickly. How do I talk to him about this? Is it too soon to bring this up? I think our feelings are mutual but I don't want to jump the gun and rush or mess something up that could be amazing.