Some of you may have read my last posts where I've recently found out that my new partner (who I will call Ben for this post ) was the dad to my ex (who I will call Micheal).

It all blew up at a party where I was meeting Ben's family and my ex showed up (for background, Ben and Micheal were estranged and where trying to fix thier relationship, Micheal's uncle convinced him to go to the party to reconcile with his dad)

Well it's been it's been about a week since everything happened and I have talked to both of them and talked about the crazy situation we are in.

Micheal still wants to try again and Ben doesnt want to end so it's been a stressful few days where I try and make up my mind but I have decided to end with both, even though my heart belongs to Ben and I don't want to break up, I can't be in this mess and they both need to try and sort their relationship without me being in the middle.

So that's it really. Thank you to everyone who gave me advice, it was really helpful.

Dont think I'll be back on here but again thank you