I’ve always been attracted to older men. I find it perfectly natural and it’s both a physical/mental thing. I’ve tried in the past and these guys have eventually got cold feet and said I’m too young for them (I’m 21.) A friend told me that it’s not normal and I shouldn’t be trying. I’m currently talking to a really nice guy (he’s 37) and things are only casual but I still have this anxiety he’s going to suddenly back out. I just want to be happy and loved like anyone else. It’s not my fault that I’m simply not attracted to guys my age, and believe me I’ve tried.

Can anybody share some success stories? Tell me about their age gap relationship and that maybe it really is possible? I feel so alone.