I (51M) need some advice. I truly don't know if I'm being skeptical or if I'm too gullible or just a idiot lol. I met a younger female (19F) through a online dating app. Well sugar dating app. She isn't on the app anymore and she says she's actually looking for someone older because she's been taken advantage by boys her age. She's originally from Spain but is the US since she was 5. She says she needs help getting stuff for college I haven't sent anything yet. She's telling me that after she starts college we'll have all the time in the world. But as of now we haven't called or spoken on the phone or even met in person. She says her family wouldn't approve. She texts me on snapchat sends believable pics and videos. Here's my thing. She makes TikTok videos alot so I don't know if she's trying to use me because she supposedly is never free to call......I'm just wondering if she's just trying to get money out of me and promises me anything just to get it??? I try to get her to call but she's always at work at a vegetable stand, then at home with her big family. She is honestly very beautiful and well I'm not lol....my question is.......what's the chances she's actually for reL versus she's just using me??? Any advice or words of wisdom plus would love to get a younger woman's take on this.