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The following is a recap all of the events that happened past night after I 26F had a small dinner date with my 64 year old boyfriend.
Am I going crazy for feeling a certain way about his behavior and the events that occurred last night ?
My 64 year old boyfriend kept telling me that sex isn’t everything in a relationship and that he sees this relationship as more than just sex.
- He kept saying that he didn’t want to be intimate with me even though it looked like he was in the mood.
- He was denying intimacy in bed and made me feel like I was only seeing him like a sex object when that is simply not true and I just like being with him intimately due to my intense attraction for him.
- He told me to wash up after we came back from the restraunt and I got ready for bed as usual once again he did not initiate any intimacy which was very unusual of him.
- I came back to the bed after taking a shower and then randomly he then decided to be intimate with me when I clearly was not in the mood anymore due to his constant lecturing me about being hyper sexual all the time.
- I was like whatever and gave into the intimacy so that he’s happy.
- He even mentioned what I talked about in my previous post about how I Shouldn’t be taking things personal when he doesn’t want to be intimate with me.
How should I proceed from here? He is confusing me allot and has never not initiated intimacy with me like this. It’s very unusual for him to act this way and then apologize for lecturing me yet give into sex later.
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