I'm Cindy, l'm an Italian mom of three and l'm 48 years old. I live in Canada, I was married to a man for 22 years. I got divorced around two years ago and my life has completely changed. (He cheated on me.)

I spent my whole life with one man, I don't regret it, we have 3 beautiful kids that mean the world to me. But since l've met my new man, l've never been happier. I met him through my ex husband actually. He sells “stuff" to my ex... one day I saw him at the bar and asked him if he had stuff for one of my friends. From that day on, we started meeting at bars more often, talking and drinking together. A drunken night, we eventually had some fun. I brought him to my house, since my kids weren't home that weekend, he showed me how good sex can be.

To give you an idea... he's 6'7, lanky and athletic Jamaican, long dreads, no tattoos, nice smile, he was cute! He put me in positions I never thought I could do. I'm 5'3 but I'm a heavy lady, so I was surprised when he manhandled me so easily. He was doing everything my ex didn't do, my ex was very vanilla... This man was kinky. He ate my ass and pussy, sucked on my toes, fucked me in different positions. He liked being vocal as well, which was very sexy to hear. He's the only person that made scream at the top of my lungs and squirt, it was quite an experience. Everything about him was big.... After multiple rounds of sex, he always liked smoking in between rounds, so we had a lot of sex that night. We fell asleep all naked and sweaty in my disgusting bed.

I was treating this as a one night stand, but he didn't want to stop seeing me. He did everything possible so that we can continue this. He's 21 years old... I didn't think it would work. But he definitely surprised me. He made me meet his grandparents (his parents died a young age.), he brings me around on dates or whenever he needs to go see clients. He bought me a car and brought me on vacation. He's showing me affection and attention that I alwavs wanted.

It's been a year that we've been together and l'm loving this. He's making me feel young and loved again. I know it's uncommon and bizarre seeing a 48 year old with a 21 year old. But l'm here to say that you should do whatever makes you happy. You shouldn't care about what other people think. It's been going great for me at the moment, people should enjoy the moment more often.