I love him to death, he treats me right. I try to give him a little slack and grace because he is young. I'm 33 f and he is 22 m. I do everything for him. I do his laundry, I bring him things, I clean, and take care of our dogs. He gets upset any time I ask him to help out with the household chores and thinks that working is all he needs to contribute. I'm fed up. He compares me to his mother, saying she did everything and she was disabled and that was okay because she didn't work. I am disabled and have mood disturbances and here lately have been sick all the time due to a new med's side effects. I do work, just not 8 hours a day. I'm so fristrated, but I also want to marry him. He treats me right and does a lot for me. He's not abusive. I want my household to be 50/50. (ish, because that's not always possible) Do they grow out of it? I did, but I'm also a female.

(I was just informed I misunderstood what was said, but this isn't the first time things like this have happened)