I was at church with my husband and my stepdaughter and her husband (they are also an AGR). It was at her church and after the service one of the men who attended the church was chatting with me and my husband. For the record my stepson-in-law is 7 years younger than my husband but looks older. The church member just casually says "How does a guy like that get a 37 year old woman to marry him?" I said "probably the same way her dad got a 42 year old woman to marry him." The guy's jaw dropped and he did a double take at my husband before saying he couldn't be 63 because he doesn't look it. The guy followed that by saying he was jealous of both of them. Not sure how to feel about it but definitely pleased to know I am not the only one who thinks my husband looks much younger than he is.